Believe

Have you ever believe in anything so much so that you would never be shattered out of it? I have always believe that we need to be kind to others especially the elderly. When I see those elderly people and the difficulties that they face, I believe that somehow they need attention and love from people around them.

If possible, we need to show our tender love to those people around us. Never forgetting our parents and our older relatives. Always make we allot some time to visit them and show our compassion to them. They need love to survive and live on..

Follow your dreams

Have you ever dream of something big and wonder if you would ever achieve it? Most people do and I believe we stop ourselves from achieving our dreams if we don't believe it. So we need to follow our dream. Make it happen and see what we could achieve. It's never too difficult provided we just sit and wait.

Nothing will come by if we just sit and wait. If you have a dream, don't fear of its impossibility. Try harder and you will see that your dreams could be achieved!

To give up or not

Sometimes, we have to give up on certain people. It's not because we don't care about those people anymore but rather because they don't care about us.

So why do we have to waste time on those people?

Permanent staff

It's not easy to get permanent staff nowadays. All employers would hope that their employees would stay and work till they retire. But in reality, this won't happen. Most employees will only work for a certain period of time before they change their working place.

As for me, I had worked in different places before. All because of better future ahead. So I believe it's good to change job after a while as it might get monotonous if we stay longer. We wouldn't want to burnt out..

Weight Gainer 1850

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Let go

When our kids are grown and they have to leave us, we have to let go. When I had to let go my son for the first time, it was hard. But I tried to stay cool. I always thought of him and would call him without fail.

But gradually, I got used to it and guess I was already able to let go. When the next one were to leave us for university, I was better prepared. I didn't feel sad or anything at all. Furthermore, it's better this round as I can talk to her through skype.

So I guess most of us parents should be able to get accustomed to it when our kids have to leave us for further education.

Giving and receiving

I love to give and I don't expect anything in return. When I was in school, I talked to a friend. She believed in giving too. When we give someone's something, we expect that person to receive. We shouldn't say No.

My friend said, "Jangan tolak rezeki."

So it's good to give and it's also good to receive. In other words, we give and we take.

My mum used to say No but when I told her that it's ok to receive, she's been receiving lots of good will from people. People only like to give to those who like to receive.

Importance of handphone in school

I can't deny that handphone is really useful for everyone even the students. Students allowed to bring their handphones to school can have mixed feelings. 

As we know, some students are rather boastful. They will tend to show off their smart phones and belittle those with cheap ones. I suppose the best way for them is to keep their handphones securely inside their school bags in silent mode. They can check on their phones when they are having their recess time and on dismissal.

To ensure proper usage, school will have to play a very important part. That is to make sure that all goes well and the phones are being used for the right purpose.

Blogging

Blogging has become a norm for most people. Some people blog because they need to keep a diary as they can narrate whatever that has happened in their lives.

As for me, I started because I was actually keen on earning some money from Nuffnang. My boy has a blog and he's earning money so he's sort of inspired me to do so.

Initially, it was not easy as I didn't have many readers. I had to find other bloggers' blog, read them and even followed them. Slowly I gained quite a number of readers.

But as times goes on, I become a little lazy to visit other blogs but I still keep on writing. Sometimes what we wrote could be read by those who found our page.

In a nutshell, it's great to blog!

Marriage

Should a marriage be continued when a bride-to-be found out the bad side of her groom? 

This is a true story of a girl. Her boyfriend took her best girlfriend for a dinner instead of herself. She was alright with that as she didn't see anything wrong with that. But a problem arose when something was amissed.

It happened that another good friend of her was at the dinner too. They didn't notice her and they were practically flirting with each other. Then later the guy took the girl to a hotel and stayed there for a night.

Nothing to be said but this other girlfriend didn't want to betray her friend . So she told the bride-to-be.

Fair enough, both broke off and the marriage was called off..

I believe it's a good decision. Luckily she knew about it before they got married.

Love your dad

Love is not easily expressed by most people. Some would just do it to please someone but not necessarily loving that person. Some love a certain person but wouldn't do anything to show the love. But to me, loving a person is very important. We may need to show our love to him/her and we may need to say it. And loving a dad is just as important. Our father is our main person in our lives. So show your love to your dad.. 

Happy Father's Day!

Uniform

Well, today is the first day that we wore uniform. I feel that it is a good idea as it shows the rapport among the staff and workers. And it is nice too as we can see that the workers are all over the place. Customers also like the idea of us wearing a uniform. One good thing is that they are sure of who is our worker. I am all for it. Uniforms create a peaceful environment too. We definitely look good too..

Why contest?

Personally, I feel that organizing contest is a great way to communicate with people. As in the case of schools, it is vital to do it once in a while to get students to be active in school activities.

When I was teaching in school, I usually had some small contest in my classes. Students were keen and it made my lessons more interesting.

Being Fashionable

We have seen quite a number of teenagers who are rather fashionable in this modern age. They tend to follow the trend or rather the fashion of the time.

What do you think of that? Would you be glad that your own child has followed this trend? But I see that there is no harm in that as long as they know what they are actually posing. As long as they know their limit and they know how to do it well. Some teenagers would go for illegal ways in order to get what they want. They might be involved in drugs distribution or even in prostitution.

As parents, we ought to be alert at what our kids are doing..

Being a boss

It's not easy being a boss. But most people presume that being a boss is easy. He/She just needs to ask the staff to do whatever that needs to be accomplished.

We don't actually realise that a boss needs to manage the company by thinking a lot regarding the business. It's a 24 hour business for the boss.

So whoever wants to be a boss needs to be prepared. There's no easy way out and it could be frustrating too when you manage your staff. You need to think the best for your own company. The staff would just do what they have to do. They barely think about your company..

Personal

Do you like to ask people's age or salary? As for me, I hardly do that. A person's age is rather personal. One can opt for not revealing one's age. That's fine with me as I don't quite like to reveal my real age too.

A person's salary is the most personal. Everyone usually won't reveal how much they earn. They might just give a range instead of the actual salary.

I consider these two particularly personal.

Holiday

Is a holiday really necessary? As for me, I would say it's necessary. It could lift up our spirit when we think about our upcoming holiday. As far as possible, I would like to visit all those awesome places in the whole wide world. Who wouldn't want, right? You might ask, "What about finances?" True, we need finances if we want to travel. So I have decided to save for my travels..

Family

Family is very important to each and everyone of us. No matter how busy we are, we shouldn't neglect our family. We should make time for every member of the family. It doesn't matter if we couldn't gather all the members together at one time. As long as family members get together whenever possible, that would be just fine.

When family members are together during the early years, there are memories to be cherished. When most of the members have their own lives away from home, that's when more contact should be done. Cherish those moments as time really flies..

Marriage

Why do we get married in the first place? As for me, I thought that it was very usual for everyone to go through. But after having gone through, sometimes I felt that it is not necessary at all. If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have got married. Why? 

I suppose we would be more or less on our own. We don't need to bother about our spouse who might hurt us one way or another. We don't need to be treated like that. We should have the freedom that we need. 

We could even made our own mind without the consent from our spouse. I really envy those who were not married. How I wish..

Learn to listen

Learn to listen with intensity,

Picking others' brains each day.

People like to tell and talk and teach,

Be wise and let them have their say.

-Lillian Too

My opinion..

Do you actually listen with intensity? As for me, I love to listen to others' stories. They somehow make our day. In this world, we can't live alone. We need friends where we can talk and talk. No harm in gossiping if gossips are just within yourself and NOT to be spread to others..