Marriage

Why do we get married in the first place? As for me, I thought that it was very usual for everyone to go through. But after having gone through, sometimes I felt that it is not necessary at all. If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have got married. Why? 

I suppose we would be more or less on our own. We don't need to bother about our spouse who might hurt us one way or another. We don't need to be treated like that. We should have the freedom that we need. 

We could even made our own mind without the consent from our spouse. I really envy those who were not married. How I wish..

Learn to listen

Learn to listen with intensity,

Picking others' brains each day.

People like to tell and talk and teach,

Be wise and let them have their say.

-Lillian Too

My opinion..

Do you actually listen with intensity? As for me, I love to listen to others' stories. They somehow make our day. In this world, we can't live alone. We need friends where we can talk and talk. No harm in gossiping if gossips are just within yourself and NOT to be spread to others..