Personal

Do you like to ask people's age or salary? As for me, I hardly do that. A person's age is rather personal. One can opt for not revealing one's age. That's fine with me as I don't quite like to reveal my real age too.

A person's salary is the most personal. Everyone usually won't reveal how much they earn. They might just give a range instead of the actual salary.

I consider these two particularly personal.

Holiday

Is a holiday really necessary? As for me, I would say it's necessary. It could lift up our spirit when we think about our upcoming holiday. As far as possible, I would like to visit all those awesome places in the whole wide world. Who wouldn't want, right? You might ask, "What about finances?" True, we need finances if we want to travel. So I have decided to save for my travels..

Family

Family is very important to each and everyone of us. No matter how busy we are, we shouldn't neglect our family. We should make time for every member of the family. It doesn't matter if we couldn't gather all the members together at one time. As long as family members get together whenever possible, that would be just fine.

When family members are together during the early years, there are memories to be cherished. When most of the members have their own lives away from home, that's when more contact should be done. Cherish those moments as time really flies..

Marriage

Why do we get married in the first place? As for me, I thought that it was very usual for everyone to go through. But after having gone through, sometimes I felt that it is not necessary at all. If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have got married. Why? 

I suppose we would be more or less on our own. We don't need to bother about our spouse who might hurt us one way or another. We don't need to be treated like that. We should have the freedom that we need. 

We could even made our own mind without the consent from our spouse. I really envy those who were not married. How I wish..

Learn to listen

Learn to listen with intensity,

Picking others' brains each day.

People like to tell and talk and teach,

Be wise and let them have their say.

-Lillian Too

My opinion..

Do you actually listen with intensity? As for me, I love to listen to others' stories. They somehow make our day. In this world, we can't live alone. We need friends where we can talk and talk. No harm in gossiping if gossips are just within yourself and NOT to be spread to others..

Lasting Love

How to maintain love? It's a wonder if a couple could maintain their love forever. Don't you think so. Lasting love is there but the feel of it always almost diminished. Why?

Firstly, it could be due to time factor. During courtship, everything is so beautiful and love could be felt. Then comes marriage when a couple decides to settle down. When kids come along, there's when the feel will slowly goes down. 

Every married couple would definitely feel the stress of marriage. So much things to think about. What more when the kids get bigger and bigger. Financial is another headache provided they are well off.

Most couple don't have the lovey dovey feel anymore when they are deeper into marriage. Anyway, love is of course still deep inside..

Money or love

Which would you choose? Money or love. 

We can't deny that money is very important in one's life. Without money, we might be miserable as we couldn't get to do what the rich could do.

Of course, love is important too. You would rather our spouse to love us than just lavish us with all the stuff that he/she could get for us.

In my opinion, when one has the money, one would rather choose Love. As we know, money can't buy love. Love is hard to come by and it couldn't be sold too.

So even if we are not rich, we could still live by love. And if we are rich but there's no Love, what's the point?