Being Fashionable

We have seen quite a number of teenagers who are rather fashionable in this modern age. They tend to follow the trend or rather the fashion of the time.

What do you think of that? Would you be glad that your own child has followed this trend? But I see that there is no harm in that as long as they know what they are actually posing. As long as they know their limit and they know how to do it well. Some teenagers would go for illegal ways in order to get what they want. They might be involved in drugs distribution or even in prostitution.

As parents, we ought to be alert at what our kids are doing..

Being a boss

It's not easy being a boss. But most people presume that being a boss is easy. He/She just needs to ask the staff to do whatever that needs to be accomplished.

We don't actually realise that a boss needs to manage the company by thinking a lot regarding the business. It's a 24 hour business for the boss.

So whoever wants to be a boss needs to be prepared. There's no easy way out and it could be frustrating too when you manage your staff. You need to think the best for your own company. The staff would just do what they have to do. They barely think about your company..

Personal

Do you like to ask people's age or salary? As for me, I hardly do that. A person's age is rather personal. One can opt for not revealing one's age. That's fine with me as I don't quite like to reveal my real age too.

A person's salary is the most personal. Everyone usually won't reveal how much they earn. They might just give a range instead of the actual salary.

I consider these two particularly personal.

Holiday

Is a holiday really necessary? As for me, I would say it's necessary. It could lift up our spirit when we think about our upcoming holiday. As far as possible, I would like to visit all those awesome places in the whole wide world. Who wouldn't want, right? You might ask, "What about finances?" True, we need finances if we want to travel. So I have decided to save for my travels..

Family

Family is very important to each and everyone of us. No matter how busy we are, we shouldn't neglect our family. We should make time for every member of the family. It doesn't matter if we couldn't gather all the members together at one time. As long as family members get together whenever possible, that would be just fine.

When family members are together during the early years, there are memories to be cherished. When most of the members have their own lives away from home, that's when more contact should be done. Cherish those moments as time really flies..

Marriage

Why do we get married in the first place? As for me, I thought that it was very usual for everyone to go through. But after having gone through, sometimes I felt that it is not necessary at all. If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have got married. Why? 

I suppose we would be more or less on our own. We don't need to bother about our spouse who might hurt us one way or another. We don't need to be treated like that. We should have the freedom that we need. 

We could even made our own mind without the consent from our spouse. I really envy those who were not married. How I wish..

Learn to listen

Learn to listen with intensity,

Picking others' brains each day.

People like to tell and talk and teach,

Be wise and let them have their say.

-Lillian Too

My opinion..

Do you actually listen with intensity? As for me, I love to listen to others' stories. They somehow make our day. In this world, we can't live alone. We need friends where we can talk and talk. No harm in gossiping if gossips are just within yourself and NOT to be spread to others..