Marriage

Why do we get married in the first place? As for me, I thought that it was very usual for everyone to go through. But after having gone through, sometimes I felt that it is not necessary at all. If I had known earlier, I wouldn't have got married. Why? 

I suppose we would be more or less on our own. We don't need to bother about our spouse who might hurt us one way or another. We don't need to be treated like that. We should have the freedom that we need. 

We could even made our own mind without the consent from our spouse. I really envy those who were not married. How I wish..

Learn to listen

Learn to listen with intensity,

Picking others' brains each day.

People like to tell and talk and teach,

Be wise and let them have their say.

-Lillian Too

My opinion..

Do you actually listen with intensity? As for me, I love to listen to others' stories. They somehow make our day. In this world, we can't live alone. We need friends where we can talk and talk. No harm in gossiping if gossips are just within yourself and NOT to be spread to others..

Lasting Love

How to maintain love? It's a wonder if a couple could maintain their love forever. Don't you think so. Lasting love is there but the feel of it always almost diminished. Why?

Firstly, it could be due to time factor. During courtship, everything is so beautiful and love could be felt. Then comes marriage when a couple decides to settle down. When kids come along, there's when the feel will slowly goes down. 

Every married couple would definitely feel the stress of marriage. So much things to think about. What more when the kids get bigger and bigger. Financial is another headache provided they are well off.

Most couple don't have the lovey dovey feel anymore when they are deeper into marriage. Anyway, love is of course still deep inside..

Money or love

Which would you choose? Money or love. 

We can't deny that money is very important in one's life. Without money, we might be miserable as we couldn't get to do what the rich could do.

Of course, love is important too. You would rather our spouse to love us than just lavish us with all the stuff that he/she could get for us.

In my opinion, when one has the money, one would rather choose Love. As we know, money can't buy love. Love is hard to come by and it couldn't be sold too.

So even if we are not rich, we could still live by love. And if we are rich but there's no Love, what's the point?

Love or hate

In our lives, there are so many things that we either love or hate.

I definitely hate it when I need to get up early in the morning to get to work.
I love to sleep on and get up on my own without the sounding from the alarm clock.

I love to cook for my family.
I hate to eat out every time.

I love people who are honest.
I hate people who are dishonest.

Most of all, I love to be loved.
I hate to be taken for granted..

Healthy or wealthy

What's the point of being wealthy when you are not healthy? I just couldn't understand why some people just refuse to take care of their own health. They may have so much money that they splash it on liquors and cigarettes. They know very well that these two would definitely ruin their health and thus their lives. But they couldn't care less. Drinking and smoking are of utmost importance to them..

Finally, when they fell sick and need treatments, they don't mind spending their fortune on that. What's the point? They might as well spend their money on good food that keeps them healthy..

Anger won't overcome any problem

Why should one get angry when someone else does something wrong. Anger won't solve the problem. It might create angry environment. Why can't the problem be solved in a cool way.

As for me, I wouldn't like to be scolded should I do anything wrong. No one is perfect and we are bound to make mistakes.

I would prefer to be told in a nicer way rather than being scolded.